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The Wed in Kent Timeline
Your complete guide from 'Yes!' to 'I do'
By Wed in Kent Magazine
1+ years to go
- Insure your engagement ring
- Decide budget
- Make a guest list
- Book your venue
- Start considering dresses
- Research any suppliers you’re interested in (ie photographers, caterers and entertainment) and contact them to check their availability
- Pay any deposits
This is often the point where couples begin exploring venues that match the kind of day they’re imagining.
12 months to go
- Send out your save the dates
- Select your wedding party and ask them to be involved in your big day
- Choose your wedding dress
- Choose your colour scheme and wedding theme
- Start planning your honeymoon
As plans start to take shape, it can help to see spaces that support the atmosphere you’re envisioning.
9 months to go
- Order your bridesmaids and groomsmen’s outfits
- Sign up to a gift registry
- Secure any suppliers you haven’t already booked
- Shop for accessories
6 months to go
- Send out your invites
- Choose your wedding rings
- Have your hair and makeup trials
- Sort accommodation for where you will stay on your wedding night
Take a moment here, you don’t need to do everything at once. This is about shaping your day, step by step.
3 months to go
- Give notice for your intention to marry or have your Banns read
- Hen and stag dos
- Sort favours and gifts
At this stage, many couples start thinking about how they want their wedding day to feel - relaxed, personal, and unhurried.
1 month to go
- Plan your seating arrangement
- Pay any final fees to your suppliers
- Have your final fittings and finalise your accessories
- Work out your day’s itinerary
1 week to go
- Have any beauty treatments you want for the big day
- Check in with suppliers to finalise timings
- Confirm your seating plan
- Pack for honeymoon
- Break in your shoes!
- Put together an emergency kit with anything you might need on the day (safety pins, hair spray, tissues, plasters etc)
Summary & Downloads
Whether you celebrate with us or elsewhere, we want couples to feel informed, confident, and supported throughout the process. To help with this, we have created a summary
Newly Engaged Timeline - a simple list you can use while planning your wedding.

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