TFrequently Asked Questions
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Planning your wedding involves many details.
To assist you, we've compiled answers to common questions about The Glasshouse.
If you need further information, please don't hesitate to contact us.
Booking & payment
Is the deposit refundable?
The £1,000 deposit is non-refundable because it secures your chosen wedding date exclusively for you. Once reserved, we stop offering that date to other couples.
We also begin preparing for your wedding immediately, including making the necessary administrative arrangements, contacting Kent County Council where required and allocating your planning support team.
This makes the arrangement fair to everyone considering the date and allows your preparations to begin straight away.
Full details are set out in our booking terms and conditions.
What is your payment plan?
Our payment plan is simple and transparent:
£1,000 non-refundable deposit to secure the date
£1,000 payable within 3 months of booking
2–3 further instalments in the lead-up to your wedding
Final balance due three months before the wedding
See our full Payment Plan page for more detail.
Does travel insurance or wedding insurance cover cancellation or postponement?
Many couples choose to take out wedding insurance, which may cover cancellation or postponement costs depending on the circumstances and the terms of the policy. We recommend researching the available options and arranging your own cover if you feel it is right for you.
How far in advance should we book?
Most couples book 12 to 24 months in advance, particularly for Saturdays and summer dates.
However, late-availability dates are released throughout the year, and our experienced team can confidently plan and organise your wedding with as little as three months’ notice.
Weather & ceremony location
What happens if it rains on our wedding day?
If it rains, your ceremony simply moves from The Terrace into The Buttery, which is also fully licensed for civil ceremonies.
Nothing about your legal ceremony changes, and there is no need for last-minute rearrangements because the indoor alternative is already prepared.
In our experience, even on the rare occasions when it rains, it seldom lasts all day. Your photographer can make the most of breaks in the weather, alongside our beautiful indoor spaces and covered areas, ensuring you still have a wonderful collection of photographs.
Does bad weather affect the reception or evening party?
The Glasshouse is a fully enclosed reception space, and its retractable domed roof can be closed if the weather changes. The Lounge Bar and The Buttery also remain available throughout your celebration, whatever the conditions.
Choosing a package
What packages do you offer?
Our wedding collection includes:
The Indulgent Wedding, our classic English wedding with Calm Before the Confetti (nearly 48 hours of exclusive access)
The Deluxe Twilight Weddings which we offer on prime Fridays and Saturdays on spring summer months
The Intimate Wedding for smaller guest lists of 30 to 40, a classic English wedding day
How many guests can each package hold?
Ceremony capacity 80 guests
Seated wedding breakfast 80 guests
Standing guests 120
Package are priced for the following number of guests:
Indulgent Wedding: 60 day-guests plus 50 evening-guests (50+30 for December)
Dinner Party Twilight: up to 60 guests
Original Twilight: up to 80 guests
Intimate Wedding: 30 to 40 guests
Extras cam be accommodated and priced accordingly.
Can Calm Before the Confetti (day-before access) be added to Deluxe Twilight or Intimate weddings?
Calm Before the Confetti is included in the Indulgent Wedding as a standard with no extra cost.
Calm Before the Confetti can be added to any of our wedding collections, including subject to venue availability the day before.
Additional charges apply, and it is a wonderful way to extend your experience and settle in before the celebration begins.
Your coordinator will be delighted to discuss the details with you.
Is the Intimate Wedding just a cheaper, smaller version of the Indulgent Wedding?
We love Intimate Weddings here at The Glasshouse! Our Intimate Wedding is priced and structured having a 30 to 40 guest list and a wedding day from 12 noon to 9pm. Couples can add more guests as well as an evening reception or hotel bedrooms. We can prepare a bespoke quote to include those extras.
Can we mix elements of Dinner Party Twilight and Original Twilight?
The Dinner Party Twilight and Original Twilight are designed as two distinct formats, each with its own dining style, guest capacity and flow. You will therefore choose one format for your celebration that suits you and your guests best, although your coordinator can help personalise the details within your chosen option.
Is a late-availability wedding a lesser version of a Glasshouse wedding?
Not at all. Late-availability dates are simply dates that remain available closer to the time. You will still enjoy the same exclusive-use venue, in-house catering, dedicated coordinator, honeymoon suite and all the features of your chosen wedding collection. It is a truly and full celebration, simply planned on a shorter timescale.
How do I check what dates are currently available?
As availability changes daily, contact our wedding coordinators directly, so the most accurate answer will always come from speaking with the team rather than relying on any published list.
Ceremony & legal requirements
Can we legally marry outdoors at The Glasshouse?
Definitely! The Terrace is fully licensed for civil ceremonies, allowing you to legally marry outdoors, surrounded by the Kent countryside.
Do we need to book our own registrar?
We will contact Kent County Council - KCC - directly to book your ceremony slot once your date is confirmed and deposit paid. You'll still need to give Notice of Marriage yourselves, in person, at a register office in the district where you live.
How far in advance do we need to give notice of marriage?
At least 28 days before your ceremony if you're both British or Irish nationals, or at least 70 days if either of you isn't, since additional immigration checks apply. Notice is valid for 12 months.
How much does the registrar cost?
This fee is set by the registration service, not by The Glasshouse, and is paid separately from your venue package. See our Civil Ceremony Licensing page, we've linked to Kent County Council's current fees rather than quoting a figure that may change.
Do we need our own witnesses?
Yes, at least two, who sign the marriage schedule alongside you and the registrar on the wedding day.
Can we include religious readings or music in our ceremony?
No, civil ceremonies cannot include religious wording, hymns, or readings from religious texts. Non-religious readings, songs or music are permitted.
What if one of us isn't a British or Irish citizen?
You'll need to give notice at least 70 days before your ceremony rather than 28, and may need additional documentation relating to your immigration status. Speak to your local register office directly for guidance specific to your situation.
Accommodation & getting ready
How many bedrooms are available?
The Bull Hotel has 9 individually styled double en-suite bedrooms plus the honeymoon suite which is reserved for the couple.
Can our guests book rooms themselves?
We recommend that the couple reserves the bedrooms and decides how they are allocated. You know your guests and their individual needs best, so you can choose the most suitable room for each person.
Is breakfast included?
Yes. A Full English breakfast is served on the morning after your wedding. On any additional mornings, guests staying in our bedrooms can enjoy a continental breakfast.
What time can guests check in?
Check-in is from 3pm on the wedding day (strict). Check-out is 10.30am.
Is there somewhere nearby if we need more rooms than The Bull Hotel has?
Yes, Premier Inn Maidstone/Sevenoaks and Holiday Inn Maidstone are both within 2 miles of the venue.
Is the Pamper Room a separate room from where we'll sleep that night?
The Honeymoon Suite with pamper room facilities will be available for you to get ready with your make-up artist and hairdresser. The room will be reorganised for you to spend the night as newly wedded.
Can our whole wedding party get ready with us?
The Honeymoon Suite with pamper room facilities is a spacious room for the bridal party to get ready. If your wider party is staying overnight beforehand, they can also get ready in their own bedrooms.
Food & drink
Is all the food cooked on site?
Yes. Every dish is freshly prepared in-house by our own kitchen team, which has earned a wonderful reputation across Kent for its high-quality, wholesome cooking. The same care is reflected throughout our wedding menus, which are consistently raved about by couples and their guests.
What's the difference between the Classic Menu and the Smokehouse Feast?
Both are three-course wedding breakfasts served at the table for all your guests. The difference lies in the style of food, allowing you to choose the menu that best reflects your tastes.
The Classic Menu celebrates seasonal dishes made predominantly with Kent produce, offering a more traditional wedding breakfast.
The Smokehouse Feast is our signature alternative, built around slow-smoked meats, generous portions and bold flavours from our in-house Smokehouse kitchen.
Can we choose our own menu, or customise it?
You can choose from a wide selection of dishes across our carefully developed menus.
Each dish is tried, tested and loved by our couples and their guests for its freshness, generosity and wholesome flavour.
With plenty of options available, you are sure to find a combination that suits your celebration and your guests.
Is wine included?
Most of our wedding packages include table wine to accompany your wedding breakfast, with a hand-picked selection of red, white and rosé house wines available.
Corkage is not permitted.
Can our guests run a bar tab instead of paying for their own drinks?
The couple can arrange a bar tab to cover drinks for their guests, with a limit agreed in advance.
Otherwise, guests can purchase their own drinks from the bar as they go.
How do you handle dietary requirements and allergies?
Wherever possible and with advance notice, we will accommodate dietary requirements.
Our dishes are freshly prepared in-house, allowing our chefs to accommodate a wide range of allergies and dietary requirements.
The venue & its spaces
How big is The Glasshouse?
The Glasshouse is a 126m² purpose-built glass structure, with a retractable domed roof, holding up to 80 seated guests and 120 standing.
How old is The Buttery Barn?
The Buttery Barn is a 16th-century building, originally used as a pantry to store food, wine and beer for the estate.
It is a romantic setting for a wedding ceremony, full of caracther with capacity for 80 guests.
Is The Glasshouse used for the ceremony, the reception, or both?
For the perfect flow, ceremonies take place in The Buttery or on The Terrace before celebrations move naturally into The Glasshouse for the wedding breakfast and evening reception.
The seamless connection between the spaces creates a wonderful sense of discovery and keeps everyone together throughout the celebration.
Is The Terrace covered, or fully outdoors?
The Terrace is a beautiful outdoor space framed by covered verandas, with outdoor heating for cooler days. Garden sofas and parasols create a relaxed and welcoming setting for ceremonies, drinks and photographs.
Relaxed and inviting, it connects the entire venue and allows the celebration to flow naturally from the ceremony onwards.
Can music be played outdoors on The Terrace?
Ambient music plays across The Terrace, while singers, violinists and other live musicians can perform throughout the day.
Getting here & parking
Is there parking at The Glasshouse?
Yes, 40 spaces on site, plus free on-street parking in the village of Wrotham.
Is there accessible parking?
Yes. Accessible parking is available, and our team can reserve convenient spaces in advance for guests who need them.
How far is The Glasshouse from London?
Around 40 minutes by car, with direct trains from London Victoria to Borough Green & Wrotham, and from London Charing Cross, Cannon Street and London Bridge to Sevenoaks.
Can coaches drop off at the venue?
Yes, coaches and minibuses can drop off directly at The Glasshouse for larger wedding parties.
Book a venue tour
How long does a tour take?
Around an hour for a venue tour, enough time to see all spaces and the bedrooms, ask questions and share your plans.
Couples will have the chance to explore the light-filled Glasshouse and its romantic barn-style ceremony room, meet the wedding team, and receive a bespoke quote tailored to their plans.
Do we need to book in advance?
Yes, please book ahead so we can make sure a coordinator is available to show you around and prepare a bespoke quote.
Can we bring family or wedding party members to the tour?
Yes, you can book a venue tour with more people. There's a field for this in the booking form, just let us know who's joining you so we can plan for the right group size.
Will we get a quote at the end of the tour?
Yes, if you'd like one, we'll prepare a bespoke quote and payment plan based on your guest numbers and preferred package.
What if we can't visit in person?
Choose "Phone Consultation" in the booking form, and a coordinator will talk you through the venue and your plans by phone instead.









