The Indulgent
Wedding
The luxury of time
The Indulgent
Wedding
The classic all-inclusive English wedding in Kent
A wedding that feels as though you're welcoming family and friends into your own home, with an experienced team looking after every detail for nearly 48 hours.
A classic English wedding, with the luxury of time
For couples who dream of a timeless English celebration, The Indulgent Wedding includes everything you would expect from a classic wedding, with one important difference: the luxury of time to enjoy every moment without feeling rushed.
At the heart of the experience is our Signature Set-Up Day, giving you access to the venue from 3pm the day before your wedding to decorate, add the finishing touches and bring your vision to life. On your wedding day, the whole venue is exclusively yours.
If you choose, you can also add all nine hotel bedrooms, allowing family and friends to stay on site and begin the celebrations before the wedding day itself. From an informal dinner the evening before to breakfast together the morning after the wedding, The Buttery & Glasshouse becomes a place where everyone can gather, celebrate and stay together for one of life's most important moments.
It is a wedding that feels as though you're welcoming everyone into your own home, while an experienced team quietly takes care of every detail behind the scenes.
What is included in
The Indulgent Package
60 day-guests plus 50 evening-guests
All-inclusive
- Access to the venue for set-up from 3pm the day before and breakdown the day after by 10.30am (no-rush, stress-free preparation and clear-up) - the Signature Set-up Day
- Exclusive hire of the whole venue on the wedding day
- Honeymoon suite as pamper room for getting ready from 3pm the day before the wedding
- Three options of ceremony spaces, including outdoors
- Canapés and drinks reception
- Three-course wedding breakfast or smokehouse feast
- Table wine and toast drinks
- Evening reception and party pizzas for all guests
- Resident DJ until 11.30pm and carriages at 12 midnight
- Overnight stay in the honeymoon suite with breakfast the following morning
- Planning support team throughout
- Interactive online planning tool
2027 Indulgent Wedding from £8,500
Our complete Indulgent Wedding experience ranges from £8,500 to £15,500, depending on the day of the week and time of year.
A beautifully hosted wedding experience spanning almost two days
Your celebration begins at 3pm the day before, giving you time to settle in and prepare the venue at your own pace. It continues throughout your exclusive-use wedding day and ends at 10.30am the following morning, after breakfast.
Venue Tour
We always recommend a relaxed venue tour. It’s the best way to explore the space, visualise the flow of your wedding day, and receive a bespoke quote tailored to your preferred date and guest numbers.
"We were at the venue from Friday to Sunday...
...with a lovely meal with close family and friends on the Friday night, a chilled morning getting ready and breakfast the following morning. We had so many comments from guests about the venue, the food and how incredible everything was."
Setting-up
the day before
The Signature Set-up Day, a rare luxury you’ll only find at The Buttery & Glasshouse
Arriving the day before to set up transforms your wedding experience into something calmer, more personal and truly unhurried.
From 3pm the day before your wedding, The Buttery and The Glasshouse are all yours to decorate. Instead of feeling rushed or cramming all the styling into a stressful morning on the wedding day, you have the chance to settle in, bring your décor, and see the space slowly transform.
This is the moment when all your planning starts to take shape, the flowers find their vases, the tables are dressed, and your suppliers have time to work without a clock ticking in the background.
You can meet your suppliers here, make final tweaks, and enjoy seeing your vision come together piece by piece. It’s a calm, enjoyable start to your wedding, setting the tone for the celebration to come.
Book a relaxed venue tour and explore the
Signature Set-up Day.
The timeline of an Indulgent Wedding
The day before access
- Your wedding experience begins from 3pm, with access to the venue to decorate and personalise the spaces at a relaxed pace.
- Settle into your Honeymoon Suite, hang your dresses and suits, and enjoy a peaceful night’s sleep, feeling completely at home.
Your wedding day, the venue is exclusively yours
- Wake up at your wedding venue, enjoy breakfast and get ready with your make-up artist, hairdresser and bridesmaids.
- Guests arrive from 1pm for drinks in the Lounge Bar.
- The Buttery Barn, just a flight of stairs away, awaits your entrance and the wonderful “I do” moment at 2pm.
- Confetti and photographs follow, with beautiful opportunities around our historic village and surrounding countryside.
- Enjoy drinks and canapés before your three-course wedding breakfast, speeches and toasts.
- Evening guests arrive from 7pm, with dancing from 7.30pm.
- Music fades and the final glasses are clinked at 11.30pm, with carriages at midnight.
- Your Honeymoon Suite is only a few steps away.
The morning after
- Wake up still wrapped in the glow of your wedding day and enjoy a Full English breakfast.
- Collect your mementos and say your final goodbyes by 10.30am.
Read about the honeymoon suite with pamper room facilities
“Where else can you find this kind of luxury, included in your package at no extra cost ?”
Book your
relaxed
venue tour
The Buttery & Glasshouse is a true blank canvas, designed to suit a wide range of colour palettes and styling approaches. Couples and venue stylists fall in love with the versatility of the spaces.
Couples will have the chance to explore the light-filled Glasshouse and its romantic barn-style ceremony room, meet the wedding team, and receive a bespoke quote tailored to their plans.
Payment Plan
To make planning easier, we offer an interest-free payment plan, allowing you to secure your wedding date and pay in stages leading up to your day.
Our payment structure is simple and transparent:
- £1,000 deposit to secure your date
- £1,000 payable within three months of booking
- 2–3 further instalments in the lead-up to your wedding
- Final balance due three months before the wedding
We believe planning your wedding should feel exciting, not financially overwhelming. Our payment plan is designed to give couples flexibility, clarity, and peace of mind while preparing for one of the most important days of their lives.
Tailoring your
perfect wedding
Because we are a family-run venue, with in-house catering and a full-time dedicated team, we can provide bespoke quotes tailored to each couple's unique needs and budget.
What did you have in mind?
Share your vision with us, and we'll create a personalised quote that brings your ideas to life while staying within your budget.
Next steps to your
Indulgent Wedding
Book a relaxed venue tour
Our coordinators will welcome you to a tour of the venue, including hotel rooms, and will be ready to discuss your wedding plans.
Share your plans
We are dedicated to providing each couple with a tailored wedding package quote that fits within their budget. Contact Leigh Anne
What to expect during your tour
We will show you the whole venue including the boutique bedrooms, answer to your questions, check if your favourite date is available and listen to your plans.
You'll also receive a tailored quote with everything you want, and nothing you don’t. Tours last around one hour.




